Faith When You Have Questions

A few weeks ago we started a Wednesday night series entitled “Built Different.” In it, we are exploring what it looks like to live faithfully in a world that often pulls us in the opposite direction. This past Wednesday night we talked about a topic that is especially important for our youth, but it is also something every Christian wrestles with at some point: faith when you have questions.

In Mark 9:14–29, a father comes to Jesus in desperation. His son is suffering, the disciples have been unable to help, and the situation feels overwhelming. The father’s words are some of the most honest in all of Scripture: “Lord, I believe; help my unbelief!” That is not fake faith. That is real faith, bringing weakness and questions to the right place.

One of the biggest lies young people believe is that faith means never struggling, never doubting, and never asking hard questions. Many of them feel pressure to appear spiritually strong, even when they are confused or hurting inside. But this passage shows us the opposite. Weak faith is still faith if it runs to Jesus. Doubt and faith can exist in the same heart at the same time. And Jesus responds, not to fake strength, but to honest dependence.

Parents, grandparents, and church family, this is where we can help. Our kids do not just need answers. They need a safe environment where they can bring their questions into the light without being shamed. They need to see adults who trust God and also admit, at times, that life is hard and faith must be fought for. When we model honesty and dependence, we teach them that questions do not have to lead to drifting. Questions can lead to deeper faith when they are brought to Christ.

Jesus ends the passage by pointing to dependence on God through prayer. Faith is not strengthened through pretending. It is strengthened through drawing near to God. So when your faith feels shaky, do not hide it and do not feed it in silence. Pray honestly, “Lord, I believe; help my unbelief,” and keep running to Jesus.

Always remember you are loved,

Eric