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Choose SELF-CONTROL (Fruit of the Spirit series)

  • Writer: Ray Reynolds, Ph.D.
    Ray Reynolds, Ph.D.
  • Oct 7, 2020
  • 2 min read

The apostle Paul wrote to the church of Galatia and said, "The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. Against such there is no law." The message of Galatians 5:22-23 still resounds today. If we are born of the Spirit (John 3:5, Acts 2:38, Romans 8) it is natural for us to bear the fruit of the Spirit. What does that mean? In this space today, I would like for us to consider "SELF-CONTROL" as a fruit of the Spirit.


The Bible has a lot to say about SELF-CONTROL. In fact, since Paul mentions SELF-CONTROL let's see what he says about it.

*Husbands & Wives Should Practice SELF-CONTROL (I Corinthians 7:5)

Because if you don't Satan will destroy your intimacy.


*Single Christians Should Practice SELF-CONTROL (I Corinthians 7:9)

Because if you don't you will burn with passion that leads you to lust and sin.


*Athletes Should Practice SELF-CONTROL (I Corinthians 9:25)

Because if you don't you won't receive the prize.


*Young Women Should Practice SELF-CONTROL (I Timothy 2:9)

Because if you don't you will not be adorned with the things that matter to God.


*Preachers Should Practice SELF-CONTROL (I Timothy 4:12)

Because if you don't you will not be the example God desires you to be.


*Elders Should Practice SELF-CONTROL (Titus 1:8)

Because if you don't you will not be able to lead the Lord's kingdom.


*Older Women Should Practice SELF-CONTROL (Titus 2:1)

Because if you don't younger women will never learn it.


* Older Men Should Practice SELF-CONTROL (Titus 2:2)

Because if you don't younger men will never accept it.


*Young Men Should Practice SELF-CONTROL (Titus 2:6)

Because if you don't you will never gain the respect of others.

Wow! That's a list. Did he leave anyone out? I heard a great illustration once that said ego stands for: E – Edging G –God O – Out. That is the anti-thesis of Christianity. Paul also said in II Timothy 1:6-7: " This is why I remind you to keep using the gift God gave you when I laid my hands on you. Now let it grow, as a small flame grows into a fire. God did not give us a spirit that makes us afraid but a spirit of power and love and SELF-CONTROL." (NCV) God gives us His Holy Spirit to stop our reckless behavior. Isn't it time we surrendered to Him?


Our Lord is not a God of confusion or lack of control. He is temperate. He expects His children to do their best to practice SELF-CONTROL. May God bless you and keep you! Choose SELF-CONTROL.


You are loved.

Dr. Ray Reynolds

 
 
 

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